Psychology of Relationships

Psychology of Relationships

You’re Not Unlucky in Love…Your Picker Is Just Broken

Why you keep choosing the wrong partners (and the exact system to fix it)

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Dr. Gary W. Lewandowski Jr.
Feb 19, 2026
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How much longer will you tolerate your faulty picker?

“Why does this keep happening to me?”

When you find yourself in a bad pattern filled with failed relationships, complicated sitautionships, or messy breakups, it’s the most natural question to ask.

You know the answer. It’s just painful to admit.

The answer requires a harsh truth: You’re the common denom…

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