Psychology of Relationships

Psychology of Relationships

Why Smart People Make Bad Relationship Choices: The Myths Ruining Your Love Life

Relationships are important. Time is short. Get it right.

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Dr. Gary W. Lewandowski Jr.
Aug 28, 2025
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You’re smart. Thoughtful. Capable. You’ve achieved a lot in life.

So why does love still feel so confusing? It shouldn’t feel this hard. Why do bright successful people who think critically and solve complex problems in other parts of their life, still make relationship choices that leave them confused, disappointed, or heartbroken?

I was that person who …

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