Psychology of Relationships

Psychology of Relationships

The Jealousy Loop: How Fear of Losing Love Creates the Distance You Dread

What you need to know about jealousy before it ruins your relationship

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Dr. Gary W. Lewandowski Jr.
Jan 29, 2026
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Why trying to hold on tighter only pushes your partner away…

Finding “your person” is hard.

Especially someone who understands you, appreciates you, and makes you feel cared for.

That’s special. That’s something we don’t want to lose. Naturally, when we find it, we’re protective.

But romantic partners can take that instinct too far. The fear of losing somet…

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