Psychology of Relationships

Psychology of Relationships

Chemistry Beyond the Checklist: Why Looks and Status Aren’t Enough

The surprising science of attraction and relationship success.

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Dr. Gary W. Lewandowski Jr.
Sep 25, 2025
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Finding a great match requires looking for the right qualities.

The hardest part of dating is the not-knowing.

What’s this person like? I mean, really like?

Early on, everyone’s a mystery. To solve it, we take any piece of information we can easily observe, and draw deeper conclusions.

What did they text? How long did it take to text? Do you like their smi…

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